How Do You Know If Someone Genuinely Cares For You?

Heidi Dellaire
3 min readNov 6, 2018
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How do you know if someone genuinely cares for you? To some of us, this might seem like a silly thing to wonder about. After all, isn’t it obvious to know when someone really cares about you? You might think so, but sometimes when you are in the relationship, it is difficult to detect the good qualities and feelings. So often our minds focus on the negative when it comes to our partners when our minds should be focused on the positive.

If you are wondering if your partner or loved one genuinely cares about you, here are just a few ways to know for sure.

When the person is able to look past your mental instabilities– most people have them! But only someone who really cares about you can live with them. If your loved one repeatedly looks past your faults then its fair to say they probably love you… A LOT.

They repeatedly go out of their way for you -When we have people in our lives that repeatedly go out of their way for us, it’s a sure fire way to know that they love you. It isn’t hard to extend ourselves for the people we love.

They take action to make sure you are comfortable– consider this thought: you’ve seen it in movies and maybe you’ve had it happen to you. Have you ever wondered why it is considered to be romantic for a man to give a woman his jacket? The answer is actually…

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Heidi Dellaire

Author of Roots and Tendrils, Alt Health Care Practitioner, Heart Space Coach at https://heididellaire.com, Publishing Editor at https://lovewideopen.com/